Single Life In Baltimore

I have been thinking about stepping into text message dating... Mainly it is like on-line chatting other than you deliver text messages and get to connect to brand new people that way. I thought it might be exciting to give it a try since I'm just always working with my Blackberry. I finally signed up to Text And Date and gave it a shot. A buddy of mine sent me the url over Yahoo messanger and really hyped it up, and so i figured what the heck.

Right after a couple of times I became acquainted with this particular cool chick from Ednor Gardens. She explained to me she preferred the sending texts strategy due to the fact she was not at home on her laptop a whole lot however still wished to meet people, and had been way too timid to do it in real life... I can easily totally understand that. Soon after a week of chatting we opted to go out and meet up. I deciced on The Black Olive and we met up for dinner. I had a excellent date with her, and we will likely go out once again this week! I guess I have the service to be grateful for.

I became acquainted with quite a few other girls as well, several good and many somewhat odd, yet I made the decision to simply give attention to a couple of mainly because it really is a good deal to keep track of! I wish I could figure out how to consolidate my contacts on my phone, that would help make that a whole lot less difficult to handle. There are actually an unexpected number of girls by Baltimore to choose from.

The very best aspect about this was I can send informal messages while I had been on the job, at the mall, anything, just as I used to be messaging my friends... From time to time being riveted to the computer will get tiring you understand? I had a pretty entertaining discussion with this one woman when I was in a checkout line even! Anyhow whenever you are interested in learning everything click here to check out TextNDate, You ought to it beyond doubt.

In my last blog entry I was telling you about this girl that I took out for coffee and then took out to dinner after that. We had kissed and stuff and we were supposed to get together a week later and I was really looking forward to it when I get this random email out of the blue from her telling me that I am not really her type and she just kissed me because she felt bad or something. I was totally baffled by this email and I was pissed off. I really was trying not to take it personal but how can't I? I mean I am not really that objective of a person to begin with and let's face it, what she did was really harsh so I messaged her back with some emails and shit but I never got a reply. I got quite bitter and jaded and angry and yet I had like 8 other girls I was talking to etc. So because of the mood I was in, I drafted up this long ranting email with a bunch of questions and shit and sent it off to all 8 girls. Half of them replied telling me to go fuck myself and the other half replied with some answers so that was good. I think it was good though because I think the girls who did reply understand me better and what I like and don't like now.

I took one of those girls out on Sunday afternoon. Her name is Rhonda and she is 23 and she is finishing up her MBA. I told her to meet me at this cool little coffee shop here in Baltimore called "Peace & A Cup of Joe Inc". The place is pretty cool inside and was packed full of people on apple laptops and shit. I told her to meet me there at 3:30pm. I arrived a bit early so I grabbed a cup of joe and went and sat down in a seat where I could see the entire place. She arrived on time so I though that was cool because I have met many other girls who arrive 10 or 15 minutes late. I am always on time and I hate it when the girl is late because I have to sit there pondering whether or not they will ever show up. Also when you have never met someone before in real life it can be kind of hard to pick them out of a crowd, so I will see a girl and be like oh I think that is her and then be like damn I hope that is not her because she is not very hot and I will be like staring at them and then it won't be them and they will be like wtf are you looking at buddy lol.

One time I was supposed to meet this girl for coffee that I met online through the dating site but she only ever had shown me one pic of her and it wasn't that clear. I knew she was thin and stuff and not fat which is usually enough to get me to say yes to the date etc but anyways I was sitting there in the coffee shop and this girl comes in who I thought was her and she grabbed a coffee then turned and looked around for a place to sit. I looked at her and waved cuz I thought it was her and so she comes over and I stand up and put my hand out and we shake hands and I am like hi and introduce myself and she says Hi I am Cindy and she sits down. I was like wtf this isn't the right girl. So I had to tell her I was waiting for a pseudo blind date and that she would be here any minute but I thought she was cute so I asked her for her phone number. The funny thing was that she sat like 6 feet away and then she heard the whole conversation I had with my real date lol. I never bothered to ever call her but maybe I should lol if I can still find her number. Anyways Rhonda and I had coffee and chatted for a bit and even though she was hot she was a bit to anal retentive for me so it was kind of uneventful and I left early. She has sent me a couple of messages but I have been ignoring them.

Ok I redid my profile on the online dating site. What I did this time was I made less aggressive and tried to come off as a sensitive gentleman. I think that is what girls are looking for initially. What the hell am I doing drinking in LA at 26?? Like duh so yeah. I also listed a lot of interests on there and also removed all the immature sounding interests like video games and stuff. It's not like I am lying, I am just withholding all the shitty stuff about me until after they fall for me... is that so bad? I don't think it is. I really don't. I happy in the haze of a drunken hour, but heaven knows I'm miserable now. Well not totally miserable but you know what I am saying. Anyways my profile is much better now and I have been getting good results. However, let me say that just because my profile is really good, doesn't mean that I just sit back and girls message me. That does not happen usually. Most of the time YOU have to be the one that sends out that initial message. So this means you have to stay on top of your game and make sure that you look at the site everyday so that you can look at the girls that joined in the last 24hrs that live really close to you so that you have first dibs on them. If you wait then other guys will be messaging them first and there is a HUGE advantage to being the first guy they take interest in that sends them somewhat intelligent messages.

So because I have been very diligent about always checking the site at the same time every morning and making sure I am not sending out retarded sounding messages I am getting a good result back. I am chatting with 8 different girls right now. Some of them on just MSN and haven't met them yet. Others I have talked to on the phone and stuff and I have been on one date so far since I ramped up operations. The battlestation is now operational! *high fives Vader*. I won't really bother telling you too much about the girls that I haven't gone out with because those are more a work in progress and once i take them out then I will give you the low down. So on Saturday I told her we should meet for coffee and she agreed. I met up with her at this little joint called Common Ground Cafe. It was a pretty cool place where cool people tried not to look cool and as a result... looked cool. I am not sure if we looked cool in there or if we looked uncool because we looked normal Anyways we sat and drank coffees and talked for hours on end about our likes and dislikes and giggled a lot. Next thing I knew it was 6pm and I was getting really hungry so I asked her if she would be interested in going out for dinner and she said yes.

We headed over to this restaurant called Obrycki's Crab House & Seafood Restaurant and ate some crab. I really like crab meat and I eat crab cakes whenever I see them on a menu etc. We had some wine and drank and ate and my mind was pretty carefree I have to say. I haven't had that good of a time in a while. I think it would be ironic if this girl, the first girl, turned out to be the one I ended up hooking up with her. Hmmm I hope she never reads this blog and realizes that I may end up dating more than one girl at a time. I mean I want to make sure I end up with a girl that I am really truly compatible with and that means I need to court more than 1 girl at a time. It is just like sales you can't just focus one customer who MIGHT buy, you need to keep prospecting so that is what I am doing. After dinner we shared a cab ride back to her place than we had a nice kiss in the taxi and called it a night. I have been chatting with her everyday since then on the phone and she wants to get together again this coming weekend. I will update this blog more once I do that and stuff.

I decided to take two months off this whole internet dating thing. I had a lot of studying to do etc and I had been chatting and dating this one girl named Melissa and I figured I could just keep hanging out with her and I wouldn't have to bother with the internet dating site anymore because I had her. Well she just went weird on me and now we aren't talking anymore. I am done with all my exams now so I guess it is time to get back in the game. Sorry to all my readers for the 60 day gap between blog posts. I have learned my lesson though and I won't make the same mistake twice. This time around, even when I meet someone cool, I am still going to continue to chat it up with new girls all the time because women are so flaky, I never know when the bottom will just drop out.

I haven't really got too many messages initiated to me online. I think I need to change up my profile a bit because I was talking to a friend and he said that he got new incoming messages all the time. So I am going to make an attempt to write something much cooler and more appealing on my profile in hopes of scoring some hot chicks. I am kind of starting from scratch I guess. I do know that there are lots of new girls that join the site on a daily basis so there should be lots of new girls for me to browse through and send messages to. When I finish this blog entry I am totally going to work on this and revamp my profile first. I think I need to take a look around the site and see what some of the other guys are doing with their profiles.

I dunno what else to say right now other than tomorrow is UFC and I am so looking forward to that event. I have been watching UFC Primetime all week watching GSP and Hardy get ready for their bout. There is a very important fight on this card too between Shane Carwin and Frank Mir. I have always thought Shane Carwin was a great fighter and I have been telling all my friends since I first saw him fight that one day he will become the heavyweight champ of the UFC. Now all he has to do is beat Mir, which I think he will accomplish in the first round by ground and pound or KO if Mir wants to stand and trade and no he will not get submitted. Then once he beats Mir, he will be inline for a title shot against Brock Lesnar, but I have a feeling he will figure out some reason not to fight Carwin. Shane Carwin vs Fedor would be an interesting fight. Bloody Fedor, he isn't fighting until the summer... nice life.

I can't begin to describe how good I feel and how fullfilled I feel since I have been dating these older women. I have made a decision not to ever date another woman under 27 ever again. I am so done with them it is not even funny. The dates I have been having with these women is amazing. They have all done so many things with their lives that it is truly inspiring and I feel honored just to be in their presence. The company these women meet is great. I have learned so much about everything in the last week or so I can not even begin to describe. The other HUGE thing I have noticed is how good these women are in bed. Younger women are so herky jerky and just have finesse and no sensitivity. They do not understand how to gently pleasure a man and they don't understand the concept of less is more.

Whenever I am with an older woman I feel like we are sharing something special. I feel like we are forming a meaningful bond and we are connected in some way. When I am with a younger girl I feel like we are just humping like wild animals. I do not feel any passion with younger women I only feel intense lust and I am not a big fan of that. Feeling that intense passion goes so much further and I am pretty sure that it releases more endorphins that the latter.

I still get messages from younger girls and now what I do is I talk to them and then I get them to tell me their flaws and then I talk to them about how they can improve those flaws and I preach to them about various stuff. A lot of them, ok most of them get really offended and tell me to go fuck myself and I find that kind of thing down right amusing. I mean I should show you guys the kinds of messages I get. These young girls just do not understand and it is not just about being young. I do not think that most of the young girls I have spoken with will ever turn out to be half the women I am talking to now.

I guess wisdom and class simply can not be taught or bought and I think that now I am naturally gravitating toward women that possess those qualities. Everyday I am scanning the online dating site for interesting older women. I message a lot of them and I get a lot of messages back from them because I do not send them something gay. I always send a long well thought out message that is relevant to their lives and most of them reply with intrigue. I love it and I will never go back!

Older women are such a breath of fresh air. I have met several women that are at least 28 and older, in fact one of them is 32 and I feel like finally I am communicating effectively and on the same level as a female. It is really hard to describe how I feel but the best way I could put it is that girls that are under 27 are very childish and infantile in their behavior. They lack the depth and maturity that I am looking for in a woman and ultimately in a life partner.

This new girl I met named Erin is amazing. I had her over to my place the other night and she gave me a massage from head to toe while we just played music. I forgot how doing something so simple can feel so good vs going out to a club and these other shenanigans these young kids get themselves into now days. I just feel so far separated from all of that infantile behavior. I imagine it is not just Baltimore that his it's fair share of these types of youths. Reckless abandonment, selfishness, excessive behaviour and all the sort. It just makes me sick sometimes to see young people behaving in such a manner. It does not bode well on them at all in the long run in my opinion and my opinion is usually right.

The other day a classmate described me as an arrogant douche bag and I felt really quite personally attacked and I do not understand what this fellow is thinking in that he feels he has the right or better to say that he feels compelled to take it upon himself to express his distaste for my personality when he himself is another flawed human being that is not in a position to be judging other people.

Anyways enough ranting, bottom line is that there seems to be a lot of mature women from 27-35 online who are really down to earth and just seem cool and normal. It is like they are hot and look great, but they have already gone through all this reckless crazy phase and now they are just normal good girls - who happen to still be horny sluts in bed. The sex that I am having now is better than anything I have ever had with a young girl. Older women is where its at and they are everywhere online.

Well it is 2010 and this is my first blog entry so far this year. Things didn't work out with that gamer chick - she ended up standing me up. I think she was talking to a lot of different guys online and well I'm not really sure what happened to be honest with you.

I am exciting though about my future. When I say my future, I mean my future with women, not my future as a doctor. Lately I have been questioning my decision to become a doctor in the first place. My dad and mom and both doctors and my grandfather was a doctor so I guess he is the one that started it all. I couldn't really think of anything else to do and since my parents paid for all my education I just went with the flow and now here I am almost about to graduate and become a doctor and have to deal with icky stuff like blood and needles etc. I am just kidding about that last part. There is a crazy doctor on my favorite tv show called 30 rock and he is all scared of needles and gross stuff lol. I have always had a strong mind and a strong stomach and I can handle messed up stuff like blood and guts no problem and cutting into people with scalpels and shit.

The economy has been so crappy lately I wonder if I am going to be another graduate working at mcdonalds with a medical degree. I can't say that I am very happy about graduating and having to go work in the real world. I guess I might be able to ride the coattails of my mom and dad and they might be able to hook me up with a job or at least put in a good word for me.

When I talk to girls online through the dating site I joined they all seem to be impressed with the pre med thing and think ooo maybe I can hook up with a future doctor now. They don't understand how much time and effort goes into training to become a doctor. I really think I would be better suited to hook up with a girl who is older than me because they will probably be more mature than most girls and I think that I am more mature than most guys and I think I need to find a girl who is in her late twenties or maybe early thirties who already has stable employment etc and isn't out every weekend clubbing and doing jelly shots off some dudes stomach.

I think I am jaded and yet I am only 24. My parents aren't really happy in their relationship and my sister has a serious drug problem but I don't even want to get into that right now. I will save that for another day, another post. Back to being jaded. I am just not an optimist, I am a pessimist and I don't have much faith in humankind. Perhaps it is because I am slightly antisocial having spent so much time with med school etc. I certainly don't feel like an average 24 year old. I feel like I am 30 and already done with the partying phase and I just want to settle into a nice job.

When I first starting writing this blog I thought that I just wanted to meet some chicks and get laid. I was wrong, I was just trying to act cool and I was in denial of how I really feel which is that I want to find someone conservative, marry them and and have kids with them.

From now on I am only going to messaging girls that are older than me and also that have secure jobs and look conservative. No more floozies.

"Aggression Fail on an Epic Scale" that is the name of the song of my life. That's right, I never heard anything back from Monica. Yes I even messaged her... twice. No replies. I really thought I my game was getting tight but I guess I am not being aggressive enough. I think the lesson I need to take from this is that I need to properly read my targets and guage early on how aggressive I should be. In hindsight, all of her past boyfriends were tough aggressive guys. Even though she SAID that she was sick of tough guys and was ready to move on to a guy that was more sensitive and would be more compatible with her, clearly this was just a defense mechanism and I should know better than to expect her to change her basic desires on a whim. Next time I encounter a female with this kind of profile, I will be much more aggressive and I will do it early on. On the flip side, when I meet a girl who is meek and quiet, or who has a history of dating men that are conservative or "nice guys" then I need to be very nonthreatening with my overall approach. Lesson learned.

I watched UFC on the weekend and man was I happy that Frank Mir won that fight against Chek Congo. I watched the fights at my friend's pad on his 70" projection which was pretty sweet. We ordered some pizzas and drank some beers and Jaegershots and got all fucked up. Then we played poker and I came in second place sigh. I lost heads up to my friend Jeremy in a bullshit hand where we both flopped trips. I won't get into the specifics because I know no one likes to hear poker stories... unless they are their own.

I met a new girl and her name is Lindsey. She is a gamer. Yeah you heard me correctly, she is a gamer. A girl who is a gamer, usually doesn't do much more than sit in front of their computer and game. I mean, if you ask most girls what they like, they never mention video games in the list of stuff they like to do let alone say that as their primary hobby. Gamer chicks are hardcore dedicated. She said she plays a lot of FPS and other stuff but mainly FPS and her nick she uses is LaidESoss. She is 21 and going to University for Video Game Development or something... I dunno if it's a University or a private college etc all I know is she studies that shit. I thought it might be a good idea to have a gamer chick as a girl friend that way I know where she will be all the time and also I like to game lol. I am going to go meet her at this cyber cafe on Friday night and she said we are going to have some drinks and then play Counterstrike and she will see if I am noob or not. I assume if I am noob then I will have no chance with her. I have played lots of FPS before like Soldier of Fortune, Battlefield 2, etc but I have only played Counterstrike a few times long ago in some cyber arcades and I got powned hard. So I bought the game and I am installing it right now. Gonna practice and also watch some tutorial videos etc and expert tips so I can try and get better at this game and impress this girl. I will let you know how it goes.

Yay I finally heard back from Monica. She said she had a good time and said I had surprised her with how hard I was partying. I asked her if she had any thoughts on me smoking weed and she said she could care less either way. I think deep down that is not how she really feels but I think she was just being nice. She was commenting on how I was attracting a lot of girls and I replied that it was because I was around her and it was her hotness that was bringing them over. She didn't really get what I meant, but I know from watching Mystery (ya know the guy that made the Mystery Method) that because I was with a hot girl, I was immediately categorized into the upper echelon of eligible men. She said that all her friends thought I was cool and would love to hang out with me anytime. That is all great and everything but it's not them I want to hang out with, it's just her. She did say that she thought I was "cute" which I hate big time. I hate it when girls tell me I am cute. Because cute is not what I am going for sigh. Anyways she agreed to go out with me for dinner on the weekend so let me tell you how that went.

It was Saturday night and I met her at the restaurant where I was taking her. We both took taxis so that we could drink without worrying about driving. The place we went to was called Pazo Restaurant down on 1425 Aliceanna Street. It was a nice Mediterranean place with a very warm interior. I was really nervous before I left the house and so I smoked a bunch of weed because I thought that would make me feel better. When I got the restaurant I was high as #$% and was like doh I smoked too much, but the good thing was that she hadn't arrived yet so I had a chance to sit there and eat some bread to try and kill my buzz a bit. When she finally arrived (10mins late) it felt like my heart was going to pop out of my chest because I was so excited to see her. She looked so incredibly attractive that I felt like I was out with a supermodel.

She approached the table and I stood up to greet her. Handshake? Hug? Kiss? wtf do I do here... grr I hate greeting people because I have no standardized greeting other than fist bumps with my friends. I stood there and kind of did nothing to see what she would do. She opened her arms as if to hug me and then kissed me on the cheek as we embraced... I was like w00t. She was smiling a lot and I was all giddy and semi-retarded as a result of that. She was talking to me and I was like just staring at her face not really listening. I think she could tell because I am pretty sure that she asked me the same thing 2-3 times and then smiled really hard and was blushing. Finally I came back to earth with the help of a little self talk. We ordered some drinks - she had a Cosmopolitan and I had a rum and coke.

I really have no idea what we were talking about. I think the topic was work etc and some other meaningless crap. I was pretty much just staring at her the whole time, fixated on her lips and teeth... man she has perfect white teeth. I think we had about 4 drinks each by the time our meals came and I was feeling pretty tipsy and excited like a little kid cuz I was with such a hot chick in such a nice place and I was high. I shoveled my food into my mouth kind of quick and near the end of the meal I was like oh I should be more conscious of my table manners. She ordered some chocolate cake for dessert and I didn't have anything. Yeah, that's right I don't eat sugar after protein. I will explain why because most people are perplexed as to why I do this. 8 years ago I went to a naturopathic doctor and they told me if I did nothing else for the rest of my life I should not mix proteins with sugars. So here is how it works... When you eat proteins they take 3 hours to fully digest in your stomach. When you eat sugars it takes your body 1 hour to digest it. So lets pretend you have a totally empty stomach and you show up at a restaurant. Then you eat steak or chicken for dinner. What happens is that now you have a lump of protein in your stomach and that's it, so your body now pumps in hydrochloric acid to break down the protein. This meat needs to stay in this state of being submerged in acid for 3 hours to fully digest the meat. So what happens when you eat dessert 10 mins after dinner? The sugar from the dessert goes into your stomach and joins the protein and acid that are currently in there. Your body will then pump in alkaline to break down the sugars. The problem here is that when you mix alkaline with acid, the alkaline will neutralize all the acid and all the liquid will turn to alkaline. So now you have in your stomach protein, sugar, and alkaline... no acid. So the sugars will get digested but the protein which only had 10 mins alone in the acid will just float around in the alkaline and not get broken down or digested and this undigested meat will sit in your colon and ferment. You will experience bloating and diarrhea etc. So basically you need to wait 3 hours after eating meat before you can eat sugar which is very hard for most people because their body craves sugar after you eat protein. It took me several years to adjust to this style of eating and now it seems totally disgusting to me to eat sugar with protein. Also drinking something sugary like soda while you are eating is the worst thing you can do because now you are not even giving the protein any chance to get broken down because you bombarding your system with alkaline. The worst example of this is when people order a Coke with their fast food. I usually TRY and wait 3 hours but sometimes I will just give in after 2 hours.

Anyways back to the date. After she finished dessert she said she wanted to go dancing somewhere so we went back to Club Hippo where we went last week. There was a big ass lineup and I was like ugh I got no connections here and I don't want to have to tip the bouncer just to get in. Then randomly she went up to a bouncer and said something to him and he just nodded and opened the rope and we got let in ahead of the crowd. When we got in I asked if she knew him and she said yeah that he was one of her friend's ex boyfriends. I was like hmm was that a lie? Was that YOUR old boyfriend? Then I was like meh who cares... an ex is an ex what should I care... at least we got into the club which was hopping. We got some drinks and hit the packed ass dance floor. We danced for a long time but sorta across from each other. I was tempted to touch her and grind her and shit but I wasn't sure she was into it. We finally left near closing time and shared a taxi to her place. We pulled up in front of her apartment building and she leaned over and kissed me on the cheek, said she had a great time and that I was sweet. Then she turned and got out of the car and I was like wtf fail. I do not understand women. I thought I was getting somewhere with her but perhaps I wasn't aggressive enough

Oops, didn't mean to wait so long between posts. Let me update you guys on what happened on the weekend with Monica and the whole clubbing thing with her friends. We didn't end up going out on the weekend I thought we were going to. She had to cancel because she said she wasn't feeling well. Whatever that means. I will never know if she was telling the truth or just punking me off. Anyhoo I had a good time and I will spell out exactly how it all went down.

I played baseball with my buddies on Saturday afternoon - it's a thing we do every Sat to stay in shape and have some fun etc. We played from noon until 3 pm and then when we were done we all went back to my buddy Drew's place to drink beers and play video games. This little after party is part of the same ritual. Good times. We were playing UFC Unleashed, Rockband 2, and some Pro Evolution Soccer, oh yeah and we played Trivial Pursuit also which is kinda cool but I prefer the board game version. I drank about 4 beers while I was there and at some point my crazy friend Stewart decided it was time for everyone to do Jaeger shots. I ended up doing about 3 of them. We ordered some pizza and wings around 5pm and I left his place around 6pm and got a drive home from my friend Alex who doesn't drink.

Got in, rolled a fat joint, put on some music and cracked another beer. Around 8pm I finally called a taxi cuz I had to meet Monica and her friends at Baja Beach Club. I was already buzzing nicely by the time I got there. I hate going to a club or a lounge or somewhere where you are meeting friends and having to stand in the doorway and look around like a knob. So that is what I did, and then saw a group of 8 people that Monica was with. I could barely recognize her as I had only seen 2-3 pics of her in her online profile. It was like slow motion walking over to this table of 8 people drinking and chatting and have them all slowly turn and look/check me out. One by one I was introduced to each person. A few solid handshakes and a few dead fish shake as well, man I friggin dead fish handshakes. There were 5 girls and 3 guys, and the thing was that they were all just friends and no one was in a relationship. It was quite a unique group dynamic, something I had never experienced before.

They were all drinking beers except one of the guys who was drinking rum and coke. I really wanted to switch to drinking straight vodka but I didn't want to appear to hardcore or extreme so I just ordered a beer. They were chatting about the usual bullshit. A few of her friends were hot, but Monica was by far the hottest girl in the group. The guys were acting a bit protective of her. It's not like they actually said anything, but I could just tell that was how they felt from the vibe they were putting out. I was half ripped and pretty high, and I was going to stay quiet and just observe but the next thing I know I was chatting about something and had the whole group in stitches laughing.

Around 10pm we left that place and headed over to a club called "Sonar". The place was pumping already at 10pm which was cool cuz I hate going to a club early and it's half dead and no one is dancing. Not exactly the kind of place that is an escape. The club was fun as hell, we all danced in a group of 8 and sometimes random people would join us. All of the girls were hot enough that they had guy on them pursuing them trying to talk to them. All three guys had game and were macking chicks all night. I had a few random girls come up to me and ask me my name and shit, but they weren't as hot as Monica so I basically just toyed with them for a bit then sent them on their way. I think this was getting Monica turned on, watching me be pursued by other girls.

Around 12:30am we left Sonar and headed over Club Hippo. As soon as we got in the place we all went to the bar and they were having drink specials on shooters so Randy one of the guys, ordered us a round of shooters, I'm not sure what kind they were cuz when I asked him what he ordered he just said some fruity tasting shooters. Downed those, and then Debbie one of the girls decided to order a round herself for us and on and on it went until we had all done 4 shooters of god knows what. Then we each got our drinks and headed out to the dance floor. One of Monica's friends named Jennifer started to touch me a lot, grabbing my arm etc and I was like uh oh. She was kinda hot so I played with her for a while and let her just do whatever she wanted. I noticed some latin girls around us watching and smiling. I was like damnnn what a great night. So nice for the old ego which had needed a boost. The effects of the 4 shooters were starting to kick in for me and also for everyone else in the group cuz the vibe changed to crazyiness within a short time heh. I decided to pull out a joint and fire it up. Passed it around to a few people in the group who smoked and after that things started to get really blurry - and that was for me with my high tolerance. The other guys who smoked in my group were really wasted lol and almost falling over. Luckily the place was packed shoulder to shoulder so no bouncers could really see how messed up we were. I really don't remember much after, all I remember was walking up at one of the guy's places the next morning named Jake along 2 of the other guys and 2 of the other girls. I guess those who were too fucked up to make home ended up here. at least I found my way to a spare bedroom and didnt pass out on the floor or some other hard surface where I would have woke up with a backache lol. I gathered my shit and headed home with a massive headache. Good times indeed. Still haven't spoken to Monica since that night. Waiting for her to message me online.

I never ended up going clubbing with Monica because she said she had to go visit her folks on the weekend. I did go out on the weekend and I will update you guys on that tomorrow or whatever. Monica came over last night... I same came over because she drove over to my pad and brought the new Star Trek DVD with her. Neither of us had seen the movie before and I got a nice 42" plasma (I don't go out to movies - I wait until they are on DVD or BluRay then watch em at home). So yeah like I said she drove over to my condo and I watched her pulling up... she drives a brand new Mustang Cobra which I thought was pretty hot. She brought a 6 pack of Stella Artois and some popcorn which was cool.

The movie was amazing. J.J. Abrams did an awesome job directing it and all the action was really good. When the movie first started and they showed Kirsten Dunst as the mother of Kirk I was like wtf this movie is gonna suck because she is in it, but then she was only in the opening scene where she escapes the burning up ship in an escape pod and gives birth on that ship while Kirk's dad is on the ship and takes over as captain because the original captain gets pwned by the romulans or whatever the hell they are called. He basically kamikazees the ship into their ship and allows dunst to escape ok with kirk.

Then it fast forwards to Kirk in his early 20's all cocky and a great pilot etc. He hooks up with Spock of course who is played by the guy who plays Sylar on Heroes, his real name is Zachary Quinto. He did an amazing job as Spock, as they could really have made the movie suck by picking the wrong guy but they didn't. Basically these romulans ended up going through some kind of time warp thingy and travelled back in time and I'm pretty sure it was Eric Bana playing the main bad dude. The guy from Harold and Kumar go to White Castle played Sulu and he did a great job - all the acting was really good. They made the movie modern and totally not cheesy which was frickin awesome.

Leonard Nemoi was in the movie too which was cool and the old spock and the young spock actually meet at one point which is really cool. There is an awesome scene where they drop this long cord thingy with a drill on the end so they can drill into this planet in hopes to insert a bomb later into it. Kirk and Sulu skydive down and land on this thing in one of the coolest sci-fi scenes I have ever seen. Sulu has a sword and he kicks ass with it pretty good. There is lots of humour in the movie which is cool and this newcomer Chris Pine does a really good job as Captain Kirk. It was definitely one of the best sci-fis I have ever seen and I love sci-fis.

I hope they make some sequels and stuff - make this into a franchise cuz I would definitely go see those movies as well. So back to Monica... while we were watching the movie we just kind of sat beside each other but near the end of the movie our hands touched and I was telling myself "just go for it" and I grabbed her hand and she was cool with it. When the movie was over we made out on my couch for about 2 hours. I really wanted to take her into the bedroom but she wasn't giving me that vibe. I think she wanted to take things kind of slow which is cool.

She said that this coming weekend she wants me to meet her circle of friends and go clubbing so I will let you all know how that goes.

So update on the redhead I met at the bar, her name is Monica and she is a kinky crazy girl based on the stuff she has been saying to me online... I am gonna go out clubbing with her on the weekend - she said she wants to hit like five or six clubs so that should be a pretty wild night.

Anyhoo, as I said, I had a 2nd date with the Russian girl Svetlana. I decided to take her to Shake and Bake Family Fun Center to go bowling... yeah that's right I said bowling. You can learn a lot from a girl by how she bowls... plus girls look sexy bending over hurdling large balls So we get there and grab a few beers. I like Stella Artois and she drank Heineken, not sure what THAT means lol. She said she had never bowled before which I thought was just great. I have bowled about 20-30 times in my life, so basically I suck, but I know what to do and what goes where lol.

There were a couple of 16 year olds beside us in their lane who were like 10x as good as us and that was funny. Anyways she looked incredibly sexy bowling. She didn't do too bad and only had a few gutterballs. She was laughing the whole time and flinging her hair around while she pranced around in her tight jeans. There were a few dads in the place that were getting a nice show and I could feel their jealously lol. At one point she whipped out a scrunchie and put her hair up into a pony tail which of course she looked sexy wearing.

The next thing I know I see my ex Sarah come in with 3 of her girlfriends and I am like #$%^& WHAT IS SHE DOING HERE?? She never bowls. Why is she here? What am I going to do? I was so stressed out and was thinking maybe I should grab Svetlana and just leave, but then I thought no way man I can't live like that. After a few mins of them being at their lane and starting to bowl she noticed me and then noticed Svetlana and her face just kind of dropped and she looked sad and looked away. I actually felt bad for her, but forget that, more power to me and my new life! We finished up that last game and I decided to leave anyways. Would have been too awkward to continue with her there too.

We headed over to Nacho Mamas on Odonnell St. for some dinner. When we were eating Svetlana asked me "was that girl your exgirlfriend or something, she was staring at us a lot and seemed upset". I nearly spat my beer out when I heard that. Yes I replied and all Svetlana said was "she is pretty". I thought that was cool because she was basically showing that she was confident and could care less about some ex I have. This girl scored a whack of brownie points with that comment. I drove her home and we kissed in the car out front of her place. She said her roommate was home watching tv otherwise she would invite me up for a nitecap and I was like np I have to get up early and so she left.

On the way home all I could think about was "I have to get up early" what the hell was I thinking... I should have invited her to my place... but of course my place is messy as hell and I can't have anyone over unless they are drunk and we are just gonna get it on... ya know the whole throw caution to the wind type of deal and haven't had one of those nights in a while.

So tonight I have another date with that Russian girl, but last night I went out with a Ukranian girl. I dunno what it is with me meeting lots of eastern European girls lately, but hey, I'm not complaining. I decided to take her to a place I haven't been before called Obryckis Crab House and Seafood Restaurant down on Pratt St. I like seafood, I mean I'm not a huge fan and I was hoping there would be something on the menu that looked interesting to me. She decided to order the same thing as me so we just asked for two of everything which I thought was kind of cool, and at the same time kinda freaked me out because that is the kind of thing girls who want relationships do and you know I don't want a relationship. We started with some crab cakes which were some of the best I have ever had, and then we moved on to a crab entree which was good as well. I had a few Martini's and she drank vodka and cranberry juice. Gotta love eastern Europeans and their vodka lol. I think she asked for Absolut vodka, and I was almost ready for her to request Stolichnaya brand but she didn't lol. I personally don't eat desert after I eat a meal but she opted to have some kind of chocolate cake which looked damn good and she looked damned good eating it. She was a blonde (not sure yet if that is her real hair colour) and she had very pouty full lips just like the Russian girl I took out last weekend and am taking out tomorrow night. She is 26 years old, first time I have dated an older woman... older woman lol that sounds funny since we are both in our twenties... anyways she is a dental hygienist here in Baltimore. She seems like she makes good money (or she is a gold digger) because she had a nice louis vuitton purse and was dressed in nice clothing. I am no sloth, but she was looking better than me.

We left the restaurant by taxi and headed over to Sky Lounge Tango Tapas on Marshall St for some after dinner drinks. The place is really cool and very loungy. Sucked back a few more Martini's and she had some more vodka cranberries while we talked about all the usual date stuff. She left Ukraine when she was 10 years old so she still has an accent which I found pretty sexy. Although earlier I was getting a "I wanna be your girlfriend vibe from her" I wasn't getting that now. The place was very busy because it was Friday night and on the way to the washroom I passed by this SMOKING HOT redhead with a bob cut and I was like wow... I sort of stared at her and she smiled back... I decided to quickly chat her up and let her know I was on a date right now but that it was our first date and nothing serious and that she should give me her phone number so we can "chat"... I'm not sure what gave me the confidence to do that, but it worked! I snaked my way back to the table and as soon as I got back my date wanted to go, so we left. I don't think she actually saw me talk to this redhead.

So we take a taxi to her place and in the taxi ride there I noticed she was kind of rambling and slurring which is not good, clearly she had one too many vodka and cranberries. We pulled up in front of her place and she was just staring at me beaming, clearly wanted me to kiss her, so we exchanged a crazy sloppy kiss for what seemed like 3-4 mins while the taxi driver sat their awkwardly waiting, watching the meter climb higher and higher. She asked me to come up with her, but I told her no, I have to work in the morning. She asked me again, and I turned her down again... I have a theory about sleeping with a girl on the first date. I won't get into it now, but let's just say I convinced her it was better if we got together another time. She seemed kind of shocked, kind of pissed off, said whatever and got out of the car.

For the rest of the ride home to my place, I could feel the taxi driver's energy and could see him staring in the rear view mirror in disbelief that I had just turned down this girl. I could tell that he was tempted to say something, and I was saved by the bell when his cell phone ring and he started chatting with the other person in some language I could not understand. So tomorrow is my 2nd date with this Russian girl and I have something interesting planned

So last week I finally went on a date with this Russian girl I had been chatting up with online and on the phone. I made reservations at Sabatino's Italian restaurant downtown. I had never seen a pic of this girl, but she sounded so nice on the phone I just couldn't pass up the chance to meet her. As I was sitting in front of her apartment waiting for her, I kept seeing these overweight girls pass by and was almost ready to GTFO. She finally emerged from the door and wow she looked fine... jet black straight hair with straight edge bangs, lean body etc, much hotter than my last girlfriend.

As we were driving through the Fort McHenry Tunnel she asked me if I had any fear of heights which I thought was hella random, but I was so nervous I don't even remember how I replied. I was intoxicated by the smell of her perfume. I really need to get a few drinks in me and fast...

I ordered a double vodka on the rocks and she had a glass of red wine, again the details are fuzzy because I was kind of just staring at her lips for most of the first 10 minutes or so. She had probably the hottest set of lips I have ever seen in my life.

Turns out we both have a thing for veal so she ordered the "VEAL A LA BEPPI" which are tenderloin veal medallions in wine and brandy sauce, with mushrooms and pimentos. I had the "VEAL SALTIMBOCCA" which are medallions sauteed in white wine sauce with mozzarella and prosciutto. The food was good, not great, doubt I'll ever go back there. Once the double vodka's started to kick in, I loosened up and started to get pretty chatty, I think I may have talked a little too much lol.

She said she had to get up really early the next morning and couldn't stay out late, so I drove her home after dinner. I really wasn't expecting much in terms of a goodbye kiss or whatever and my assessment of the situation was pretty bang on as she reached over, gave me a kiss on the cheek, thanked me for dinner, and went inside.

I had chalked up this first online dating encounter as a faillllllll but to my surprise she continued to talk to me and mentioned that she was very nervous herself having just got out of a LTR herself but thought I was cute and wants to hook up again. Man, I hate it when girls call me cute, not sure if it's a compliment or an insult. Anyways, taking her out again next weekend and hopefully I will have good news to share!

I am a 24 year old pre-med student attending University of Baltimore and I've always wanted to start a blog. Some of my friends have blogs but I have never had anything really interesting to write about, but now that I am no longer in a full time relationship, I thought I would start a blog and document my endeavors as a single guy trying to get back in the game.

I live in Avalon Centrepoint near Patterson Park by myself. It's a pretty nice place and there are lots of hot girls living in my building but I am finding it easier to connect with girls online... I guess I'm a bit shy when it comes to approaching girls just randomly in real life, but online my success seems much better.

I'm not looking for another long term relationship right now, just want to meet girls, have fun and maybe get laid now and then lol. I will do my best to try and not fall in love with any of these girls I meet otherwise this blog will become pointless!! So the goal is to stay single and hopefully other guys out there who are also single will benefit from my experiences meeting women.