Oops wrong girl lol

In my last blog entry I was telling you about this girl that I took out for coffee and then took out to dinner after that. We had kissed and stuff and we were supposed to get together a week later and I was really looking forward to it when I get this random email out of the blue from her telling me that I am not really her type and she just kissed me because she felt bad or something. I was totally baffled by this email and I was pissed off. I really was trying not to take it personal but how can't I? I mean I am not really that objective of a person to begin with and let's face it, what she did was really harsh so I messaged her back with some emails and shit but I never got a reply. I got quite bitter and jaded and angry and yet I had like 8 other girls I was talking to etc. So because of the mood I was in, I drafted up this long ranting email with a bunch of questions and shit and sent it off to all 8 girls. Half of them replied telling me to go fuck myself and the other half replied with some answers so that was good. I think it was good though because I think the girls who did reply understand me better and what I like and don't like now.

I took one of those girls out on Sunday afternoon. Her name is Rhonda and she is 23 and she is finishing up her MBA. I told her to meet me at this cool little coffee shop here in Baltimore called "Peace & A Cup of Joe Inc". The place is pretty cool inside and was packed full of people on apple laptops and shit. I told her to meet me there at 3:30pm. I arrived a bit early so I grabbed a cup of joe and went and sat down in a seat where I could see the entire place. She arrived on time so I though that was cool because I have met many other girls who arrive 10 or 15 minutes late. I am always on time and I hate it when the girl is late because I have to sit there pondering whether or not they will ever show up. Also when you have never met someone before in real life it can be kind of hard to pick them out of a crowd, so I will see a girl and be like oh I think that is her and then be like damn I hope that is not her because she is not very hot and I will be like staring at them and then it won't be them and they will be like wtf are you looking at buddy lol.

One time I was supposed to meet this girl for coffee that I met online through the dating site but she only ever had shown me one pic of her and it wasn't that clear. I knew she was thin and stuff and not fat which is usually enough to get me to say yes to the date etc but anyways I was sitting there in the coffee shop and this girl comes in who I thought was her and she grabbed a coffee then turned and looked around for a place to sit. I looked at her and waved cuz I thought it was her and so she comes over and I stand up and put my hand out and we shake hands and I am like hi and introduce myself and she says Hi I am Cindy and she sits down. I was like wtf this isn't the right girl. So I had to tell her I was waiting for a pseudo blind date and that she would be here any minute but I thought she was cute so I asked her for her phone number. The funny thing was that she sat like 6 feet away and then she heard the whole conversation I had with my real date lol. I never bothered to ever call her but maybe I should lol if I can still find her number. Anyways Rhonda and I had coffee and chatted for a bit and even though she was hot she was a bit to anal retentive for me so it was kind of uneventful and I left early. She has sent me a couple of messages but I have been ignoring them.