Single Life In Baltimore

Met A Chick Through SMS Dating

nospam@example.com (Tom) — Mon, 21 Jun 2010 19:43:53 -0400

I have been thinking about stepping into text message dating... Mainly it is like on-line chatting other than you deliver text messages and get to connect to brand new people that way. I thought it might be exciting to give it a try since I'm just always working with my Blackberry. I finally signed up to Text And Date and gave it a shot. A buddy of mine sent me the url over Yahoo messanger and really hyped it up, and so i figured what the heck.

Right after a couple of times I became acquainted with this particular cool chick from Ednor Gardens. She explained to me she preferred the sending texts strategy due to the fact she was not at home on her laptop a whole lot however still wished to meet people, and had been way too timid to do it in real life... I can easily totally understand that. Soon after a week of chatting we opted to go out and meet up. I deciced on The Black Olive and we met up for dinner. I had a excellent date with her, and we will likely go out once again this week! I guess I have the service to be grateful for.

I became acquainted with quite a few other girls as well, several good and many somewhat odd, yet I made the decision to simply give attention to a couple of mainly because it really is a good deal to keep track of! I wish I could figure out how to consolidate my contacts on my phone, that would help make that a whole lot less difficult to handle. There are actually an unexpected number of girls by Baltimore to choose from.

The very best aspect about this was I can send informal messages while I had been on the job, at the mall, anything, just as I used to be messaging my friends... From time to time being riveted to the computer will get tiring you understand? I had a pretty entertaining discussion with this one woman when I was in a checkout line even! Anyhow whenever you are interested in learning everything click here to check out TextNDate, You ought to it beyond doubt.

Oops wrong girl lol

nospam@example.com (Tom) — Tue, 11 May 2010 11:30:00 -0400

In my last blog entry I was telling you about this girl that I took out for coffee and then took out to dinner after that. We had kissed and stuff and we were supposed to get together a week later and I was really looking forward to it when I get this random email out of the blue from her telling me that I am not really her type and she just kissed me because she felt bad or something. I was totally baffled by this email and I was pissed off. I really was trying not to take it personal but how can't I? I mean I am not really that objective of a person to begin with and let's face it, what she did was really harsh so I messaged her back with some emails and shit but I never got a reply. I got quite bitter and jaded and angry and yet I had like 8 other girls I was talking to etc. So because of the mood I was in, I drafted up this long ranting email with a bunch of questions and shit and sent it off to all 8 girls. Half of them replied telling me to go fuck myself and the other half replied with some answers so that was good. I think it was good though because I think the girls who did reply understand me better and what I like and don't like now.

I took one of those girls out on Sunday afternoon. Her name is Rhonda and she is 23 and she is finishing up her MBA. I told her to meet me at this cool little coffee shop here in Baltimore called "Peace & A Cup of Joe Inc". The place is pretty cool inside and was packed full of people on apple laptops and shit. I told her to meet me there at 3:30pm. I arrived a bit early so I grabbed a cup of joe and went and sat down in a seat where I could see the entire place. She arrived on time so I though that was cool because I have met many other girls who arrive 10 or 15 minutes late. I am always on time and I hate it when the girl is late because I have to sit there pondering whether or not they will ever show up. Also when you have never met someone before in real life it can be kind of hard to pick them out of a crowd, so I will see a girl and be like oh I think that is her and then be like damn I hope that is not her because she is not very hot and I will be like staring at them and then it won't be them and they will be like wtf are you looking at buddy lol.

One time I was supposed to meet this girl for coffee that I met online through the dating site but she only ever had shown me one pic of her and it wasn't that clear. I knew she was thin and stuff and not fat which is usually enough to get me to say yes to the date etc but anyways I was sitting there in the coffee shop and this girl comes in who I thought was her and she grabbed a coffee then turned and looked around for a place to sit. I looked at her and waved cuz I thought it was her and so she comes over and I stand up and put my hand out and we shake hands and I am like hi and introduce myself and she says Hi I am Cindy and she sits down. I was like wtf this isn't the right girl. So I had to tell her I was waiting for a pseudo blind date and that she would be here any minute but I thought she was cute so I asked her for her phone number. The funny thing was that she sat like 6 feet away and then she heard the whole conversation I had with my real date lol. I never bothered to ever call her but maybe I should lol if I can still find her number. Anyways Rhonda and I had coffee and chatted for a bit and even though she was hot she was a bit to anal retentive for me so it was kind of uneventful and I left early. She has sent me a couple of messages but I have been ignoring them.

Hard work pays off

nospam@example.com (Tom) — Wed, 14 Apr 2010 14:30:00 -0400

Ok I redid my profile on the online dating site. What I did this time was I made less aggressive and tried to come off as a sensitive gentleman. I think that is what girls are looking for initially. What the hell am I doing drinking in LA at 26?? Like duh so yeah. I also listed a lot of interests on there and also removed all the immature sounding interests like video games and stuff. It's not like I am lying, I am just withholding all the shitty stuff about me until after they fall for me... is that so bad? I don't think it is. I really don't. I happy in the haze of a drunken hour, but heaven knows I'm miserable now. Well not totally miserable but you know what I am saying. Anyways my profile is much better now and I have been getting good results. However, let me say that just because my profile is really good, doesn't mean that I just sit back and girls message me. That does not happen usually. Most of the time YOU have to be the one that sends out that initial message. So this means you have to stay on top of your game and make sure that you look at the site everyday so that you can look at the girls that joined in the last 24hrs that live really close to you so that you have first dibs on them. If you wait then other guys will be messaging them first and there is a HUGE advantage to being the first guy they take interest in that sends them somewhat intelligent messages.

So because I have been very diligent about always checking the site at the same time every morning and making sure I am not sending out retarded sounding messages I am getting a good result back. I am chatting with 8 different girls right now. Some of them on just MSN and haven't met them yet. Others I have talked to on the phone and stuff and I have been on one date so far since I ramped up operations. The battlestation is now operational! *high fives Vader*. I won't really bother telling you too much about the girls that I haven't gone out with because those are more a work in progress and once i take them out then I will give you the low down. So on Saturday I told her we should meet for coffee and she agreed. I met up with her at this little joint called Common Ground Cafe. It was a pretty cool place where cool people tried not to look cool and as a result... looked cool. I am not sure if we looked cool in there or if we looked uncool because we looked normal Anyways we sat and drank coffees and talked for hours on end about our likes and dislikes and giggled a lot. Next thing I knew it was 6pm and I was getting really hungry so I asked her if she would be interested in going out for dinner and she said yes.

We headed over to this restaurant called Obrycki's Crab House & Seafood Restaurant and ate some crab. I really like crab meat and I eat crab cakes whenever I see them on a menu etc. We had some wine and drank and ate and my mind was pretty carefree I have to say. I haven't had that good of a time in a while. I think it would be ironic if this girl, the first girl, turned out to be the one I ended up hooking up with her. Hmmm I hope she never reads this blog and realizes that I may end up dating more than one girl at a time. I mean I want to make sure I end up with a girl that I am really truly compatible with and that means I need to court more than 1 girl at a time. It is just like sales you can't just focus one customer who MIGHT buy, you need to keep prospecting so that is what I am doing. After dinner we shared a cab ride back to her place than we had a nice kiss in the taxi and called it a night. I have been chatting with her everyday since then on the phone and she wants to get together again this coming weekend. I will update this blog more once I do that and stuff.

Women are so flaky

nospam@example.com (Tom) — Fri, 26 Mar 2010 12:03:00 -0400

I decided to take two months off this whole internet dating thing. I had a lot of studying to do etc and I had been chatting and dating this one girl named Melissa and I figured I could just keep hanging out with her and I wouldn't have to bother with the internet dating site anymore because I had her. Well she just went weird on me and now we aren't talking anymore. I am done with all my exams now so I guess it is time to get back in the game. Sorry to all my readers for the 60 day gap between blog posts. I have learned my lesson though and I won't make the same mistake twice. This time around, even when I meet someone cool, I am still going to continue to chat it up with new girls all the time because women are so flaky, I never know when the bottom will just drop out.

I haven't really got too many messages initiated to me online. I think I need to change up my profile a bit because I was talking to a friend and he said that he got new incoming messages all the time. So I am going to make an attempt to write something much cooler and more appealing on my profile in hopes of scoring some hot chicks. I am kind of starting from scratch I guess. I do know that there are lots of new girls that join the site on a daily basis so there should be lots of new girls for me to browse through and send messages to. When I finish this blog entry I am totally going to work on this and revamp my profile first. I think I need to take a look around the site and see what some of the other guys are doing with their profiles.

I dunno what else to say right now other than tomorrow is UFC and I am so looking forward to that event. I have been watching UFC Primetime all week watching GSP and Hardy get ready for their bout. There is a very important fight on this card too between Shane Carwin and Frank Mir. I have always thought Shane Carwin was a great fighter and I have been telling all my friends since I first saw him fight that one day he will become the heavyweight champ of the UFC. Now all he has to do is beat Mir, which I think he will accomplish in the first round by ground and pound or KO if Mir wants to stand and trade and no he will not get submitted. Then once he beats Mir, he will be inline for a title shot against Brock Lesnar, but I have a feeling he will figure out some reason not to fight Carwin. Shane Carwin vs Fedor would be an interesting fight. Bloody Fedor, he isn't fighting until the summer... nice life.

Older women are my muse

nospam@example.com (Tom) — Wed, 27 Jan 2010 19:21:00 -0500

I can't begin to describe how good I feel and how fullfilled I feel since I have been dating these older women. I have made a decision not to ever date another woman under 27 ever again. I am so done with them it is not even funny. The dates I have been having with these women is amazing. They have all done so many things with their lives that it is truly inspiring and I feel honored just to be in their presence. The company these women meet is great. I have learned so much about everything in the last week or so I can not even begin to describe. The other HUGE thing I have noticed is how good these women are in bed. Younger women are so herky jerky and just have finesse and no sensitivity. They do not understand how to gently pleasure a man and they don't understand the concept of less is more.

Whenever I am with an older woman I feel like we are sharing something special. I feel like we are forming a meaningful bond and we are connected in some way. When I am with a younger girl I feel like we are just humping like wild animals. I do not feel any passion with younger women I only feel intense lust and I am not a big fan of that. Feeling that intense passion goes so much further and I am pretty sure that it releases more endorphins that the latter.

I still get messages from younger girls and now what I do is I talk to them and then I get them to tell me their flaws and then I talk to them about how they can improve those flaws and I preach to them about various stuff. A lot of them, ok most of them get really offended and tell me to go fuck myself and I find that kind of thing down right amusing. I mean I should show you guys the kinds of messages I get. These young girls just do not understand and it is not just about being young. I do not think that most of the young girls I have spoken with will ever turn out to be half the women I am talking to now.

I guess wisdom and class simply can not be taught or bought and I think that now I am naturally gravitating toward women that possess those qualities. Everyday I am scanning the online dating site for interesting older women. I message a lot of them and I get a lot of messages back from them because I do not send them something gay. I always send a long well thought out message that is relevant to their lives and most of them reply with intrigue. I love it and I will never go back!